Obstacle

I love the picture they chose to underline the statement. All those little obstacles, the incline in one way and the smooth, straight path on the other side. A crossroad and we have to make a decision which side to choose. We all know that this represents life. Everyone’s life.

See, I don’t believe that there are people out there who never encounter(ed) obstacles in their life. It’s just not happening. And yet with some it seems they had a smooth ride all along and will always just simply cruise along. But that’s only that one layer we see. We really have no idea of what lies underneath, where and when they faced their struggles.

What we do see are survivors (if you want to call them that). People who did not give up and kept going. People who trusted in their abilities and in overcoming their obstacle. What we see is someone that did not let the obstacle be in the way. Someone who found a way around, under or over it. Maybe even someone who looked at the obstacle as a challenge and not a wall.

Can limitations and obstructions push us forward in our creative work?

Of course limitations, obstaclesΒ  can push us forward. In our creative work but also in life. But only if we look at it in the right way. As long as we look at it as limitations, as an obstacle we will not see the challenge and the chances that come with it.

Did you know that Oprah was fired from her first reporting job at the age of 23? Imagine she would have given up rather than pulling through! Stephen King was working as a janitor and living in a trailer when he was 24! J.K. Rowling was a suicidal single parent living on welfare when she was 28! Samuel L. Jackson didn’t get his first movie role until he was 46…

I’m sure they thought about giving up. I’m sure they felt fed up. I’m sure they wanted to throw in the towel. But they all kept going…

When you face the obstacle, when you look at the steep path full of roots and rocks and holes, it might exhaust you. It might scare the hell out of you. It might make you cry and push you to the limit. It might feel as if you are about to go over the edge.

And in that moment it’s not easy to calm down and to try to see the other side to it. The adventure side that it brings along. The challenge it offers you. The chance to prove yourself something that comes along. All those things are there. We just need to take that moment to change the way we see it. We need to stop and take a big breath.

Sometimes the path that look less inviting will actually lead you to the much better place with the much better view.

House of the Sun – Haleakala Sunrise by Inder Wakwah

 

Inspired by the Daily Post Discovery Challenge – Obstacle and Daily Post Daily Prompt – Crossroads

27 thoughts on “Obstacle

  1. Loved it! So true. How we view obstacles is paramount. Sometimes difficult in the moment, but to shift the view as a positive challenge to growth is very helpful to overcoming. πŸ™‚

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  2. This is some great perspective. It makes me think when I got let go from my management position, I thought I would never recover from that. Now almost 10 years later at the same job, it was the best thing that could have happened to me and for my family. You just never know, when the road seems so dark it can be amazing what sites can been see when you get the your next crossroad.

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    • That’s very well put and I couldn’t agree more. It’s really hard to see the other options at first because you become almost numb. But it’s important to keep your eyes open and take it all in. And suddenly you will see…

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  3. You are so right, I’m pretty sure we all face obstacles but those are the challenges that make us grow. Sticking to the rocky path ahead can often lead to things which are personally very rewarding. I love the photo you finish with … so perfectly illustrates your point that at the end of that dark and scary path, lies great beauty. Thank you for such a great post!

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  4. Very thoughtful post. I have been thinking a great deal about the directions our lives go, and the ways we get steered onto another course. It’s fascinating how things work out.

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  5. But, it can be so hard to follow that choice. And the in-between regrets are often known to put you in a state of REAL dilemma. However, this quote encourages me. Maybe one day I will stop analyzing too much before taking the plunge!

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  7. Great post! I’ve always seen obstacles as challenges and not obstacles. Most times that has made all the difference. As challenges I can stay calmer and solver the problem instead of worrying and stressing and only make it worse.

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