It’s a challenge to describe what goes on inside of you when you actually feel this way. I was once told that it couldn’t be right if I don’t feel all crazy. I tried to explain how deep and very different this feeling is that I had. But first of all I didn’t manage to find the right words and second the person was not able to understand it anyway.
I never blamed this friend of mine for not understanding. I wouldn’t have been able too either before I actually felt it. Why would I blame my friend? I was the same! Being in love meant for me being head over heels, crazy butterflies and so on. Until I met my husband and understood that it’s so much more. So different.
It’s the feeling of having arrived.
I guess we all define “Soulmate” differently. Some of us believe in soulmates, others don’t. Some define it as the partner we are looking for and for others it can also be a friend that is close and you have a deep connection with. Some think that there can be more than one soulmate in your life.
I consider myself lucky. Lucky because I’ve found my soulmate. He is the love of my life and I know I’m his. Not only is my husband the love of my life, he’s also my best friend and companion. He’s the best dad you could ever wish for for your kids. I could go on and on.
He knows how to cheer me up when I’m down and he knows how to put my feet back on the ground if I get crazy. He inspires me on a daily base and makes me feel like I’m on top of the world. I know that I’m the most beautiful woman in his eyes and that he adores every single bit of me. All my craziness.
It’s his smile, it’s the hug I get when I’m sad. It’s his jokes and his laughter. But it’s also that he feels comfortable enough to cry in front of me when he’s sad. That he gives me the feeling of being the one to pick him up, when he’s down. I know that I can make him laugh and feel comfortable with everything.
It’s all about knowing that you have arrived. Words can’t really describe this feeling of love and companionship. Of understanding and warmth. Of excitement and joy. I’ve told the story about how we found each other before. I still consider it special. We just knew. And we are still here. Together. Happy. And excited for the future.
Inspired by the Daily Post Daily Prompt – Born To Be With You
The thought of having a soulmate in this world, somewhere, always fascinated me. I always wondered if there really is someone out there who truly belongs to you. Someone that is your missing half, that completes you, understands you, maybe even better than you understand yourself. I’ve found my soulmate. The fact that there really is the right person out there for you still fascinates me. Today I wonder if my kids will ever find their soulmate. If they will be as lucky as I was, as I am. Or if they will spend their life looking, longing, wondering.
I was longing for so long, longing for something I did not have. There was an emptiness inside of me, a place that needed to be filled. My life was good, my friends were great and I was happy in my relationship. But still something was missing. There was this one space in my heart which still remained ‘unoccupied’.
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“According to Greek mythology, humans were originally created with four arms, four legs and a head with two faces. Fearing their power, Zeus split them into two separate parts, condemning them to spend their lives in search of their other halves.”