If you make a mistake then own it. I find it unbelievable how many people actually try to blame their fault on someone else although it’s obvious that nobody else had anything to do with it.
It’s the “those idiots sent me here” thing, while it’s clear that “those idiots” actually did the right thing and the person did the wrong thing. It’s like pulling into a one way street the wrong way and then blaming it on others.
It’s the calling someone a bitch for something that was done wrong by you, just because that person is unable to help you. I do hate the word procedure or policy too but in some cases it’s just what it is and there’s simply no way around it. So deal with it.
If you make a mistake and people honestly try to help you and solve the problem then appreciate it. It’s that simple.
Working is like a huge field study. The behaviour of people is crazy interesting. No matter who they are, how important they think they are or what they want. I love studying the behaviour of people at the moment. I love seeing how they react in certain situations. And I love to see the huge differences in their reaction to the same issues.
I believe you can tell a lot about a person by the way they approach you, the way they react and the way they leave. There’s a lot I will take out of the last couple of weeks again. Lots of things I learned once more. I have a little list in my head of reactions I want to have in my future when confronted with certain issues, things I want to do and especially reactions I never want to make mine.
And that one thing pops in my mind I was always told when growing up: Treat people the way you want to be treated…
Well said! I have to say that I’m not always as calm as I wish and don’t always respond in a way I find appropriate… But that’s more to people who have been doing nothing, even though they are paid for it (a lot) and already promised me often and are blaming me and it’s been going on for months and put me in a lot of trouble. Or does that sound like an excuse? lol. Life and people are difficult.
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No excuse at all. Those are the kind of people I was talking about as well.
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So true!
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Right? I really don’t see the issue. We all have our moments and make mistakes. Do something about it and then move on.
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Absolutely concur..no one is perfect so I don’t see why I should be ashamed or shy to take a blame. Shit happens..we deal with it. Not blame it on other people no matter how appealing it feels to blame them.
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Yes, shit happens. We are all human beings and we all make a mistakes. So own it and then do something about it and move on.
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Talk is cheap…what’s the next solution. That should be the focus.
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Exactly
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Great post! It’s all about integrity.
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Perfect word for it!
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Thanks. 🙂
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What about those of us who never make misteaks?
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Hahaha… Well they of course can own that too 🙂
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I’m trying to teach this lesson to Crash. He’s forever blaming others for his own mistakes. He’ll even blame inanimate objects. If he bangs his tow on a chair leg, it’s the chair’s fault. If he runs into a door, it’s the door’s fault.
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Hahahaha! Why would the chair or the door just be in his way??? Hehehehe
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Exactly. It’s their fault because THEY were in the way NOT because he wasn’t watching where he was going.
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Of course!
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So true!
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I love the statement that work is a giant field study. It really is! Watching people and how they behave is interesting, you can learn so much about them without even talking to them.
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Definitely. And I love doing that! I also love being at the airport and just watching people. People and their behaviour is interesting…
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Very
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I appreciate it when people own their mistakes too. When they don’t I feel like they want me to take responsibility for their mistakes. Why should I be sorry for your mistakes, own your own behavior, you will be much happier.
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I think it makes them good co workers or supervisors or bosses if they admit they did something wrong.
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Amen!
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My parents didn’t buy excuses or put up with crap! Made the rest of my life a lot easier!
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That’s a good lesson for the kids, I think.
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Preach it sister…Again!
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Hahaha! Okay, I will at one point! It’s one of the things that drives me nuts!
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Well, you’re not the only one.
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I use to work in retail and I firmly believe that everyone should be made to work a Christmas in retail. One of the best ones was a lady (I use the term losely) came in on Christmas eve half an hour before we were due to shut to get the most popular book, which we had sold out of. She basically demanded that we print her one there and then. And the language was amazing and the worse of this was, she was screaming at me, she was screaming at a 16 year child, who was doing a bit of overtime. I kicked her out the shop so fast (I was the manager) her feet didn’t touch the gound
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Good on you!
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Thank you. I am old enough and ugly enough to look after myself but it annoyed me when yelling at a child. I have no idea what she thought a little 16 year old could do
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There’s something I learned in my life and observed again over the last couple of weeks: People who do that just simply are like that. They will always find a reason to yell at someone and they don’t care really who it is, whose fault it is and if it makes sense at all or not. There’s nothing you can do about it. The hard part is to actually learn this and let a reaction like this drop off you like water drops off the feathers of a duck.
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And I do agree but, and a big but, is while you may learn that with this particular incident she learnt her manager had her back,
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And that is a great thing!
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I really hope she took that away with her. I would like to think that I was good to my staff
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I’m sure she told her friends about you and that what you did. Maybe even her parents…
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Maybe 🙂
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It”s the people you work with that make the job enjoyable or miserable. And what you’ve learned from your recent experience may not be applicable in any future similar endeavors. I learned this from experience, especially when there was a long period of time between my similar endeavors. I don’t know if the business or the “rules” had changed in the interim, but I did not have as much fun on the newer job as I’d excitedly anticipated when I accepted it. I hope you don’t experience this same culture shock if another career opportunity presents itself to you.
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Let’s keep the fingers crossed 😉
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